From my inbox……….. I am confused
Abefe, I never thought this would happen to me. 6years ago i broke up with my wife/kids mother in which the break up was very bad and messy. She took me to court and we got a divorce. Two years ago i met this wonderful lady via Facebook and we have been fine since then, as a matter of fact, i went to Nigeria last October and we did our introduction which was really nice and due to get married soon this year.
Towards the end of last year i noticed that my kids mother started calling me profoundly, sending me messages on how she and the kids are missing me. At first i thought i was dreaming, would go there to spend time with the kids as previously i was only allowed to have them every other weekend and half of the summer holidays but this time, she want me there every weekend. She shocked me few days ago, she started crying begging me that we should come back together. In shock i jumped out of my skin because this was a woman that i have never seen cry before, she got the kids around me and they were all there begging me to give their mum another chance.
Abefe, really i don’t want to go back to this woman but now that she has gotten the kids involved, what do i do? I am engaged to be married to this other lovely lady that has completed my world for the past few years but i also don’t want to disappoint my kids. What do you suggest please?