From my inbox………….. Can we still be compatible?
Sister Abefe, I left Nigeria about 11 years ago, and i left behind my husband and one child and i have been sending money to them ever since i have been able to secure a job here. The problem now is, i want to go and bring my child over and dont think it will worth me while to bring my husband over here as I believe we have grown apart. Do you think we will still have some sort of compatibility between us? I have seen marriages breaking down after people have brought their spouse from Nigeria to here and i dont want that to happen to me. I am not dating anyone right now incase people want to judge me based on that, I am just skeptical about the compatibility because over the phone even, we hardly have anything to talk about. Please give me your opinion on this. Thank you