From my inbox …. My two months marriage
Aunty mi Abefe uhmmmmm I don’t know where to start from. I am a lady of 33years old and am a American Citizen I ve been in America for 6years now and I just got married not upto two months but the moment we got married my husband that used to be caring and so doting I mean so doting changed towards me treating me so bad he stopped calling me like he used too .before I forget he leaves in london and I have been there to see him four times and the shortest time I have spent with him in london is 1mnth he has been in london for 12 years with no paper and when I met him he did not ve anything no job no house but I still stick with him because I love him so much and before we did our marriage back home without us being there we had plans of me filing for him (note he did not marry me for his papers, koko pls don’t ask if am sure cos am 100% sure he is a very honest person he never hides anything from me and I know he loves me) but all of a sudden he changed towards me saying I treated him bad because I never open up to him the way he did with me of which he has password to my Facebook he knows my movement here the only thing I kept away from him is when I use my gold to borrow money and I co signed for my brother when he had problem with his black American wife and he needed a car to get to work and I did not tell him because I know he would be mad at me that’s why I did not tell him but he took it the wrong way and he has been so indifferent to me that I have fasted and prayed even begged him but he refused to change and now he has refused to join me in the state saying if it is for him to get married anyone in london to get his papers he will do it and even have baby with the person and I prayed for him on that to but he has refused to let me move on I have tried to tell him countless times I even offered to stop my life here in the states to come join him that what ever he feeds on I will thou until he gets favored by God but he refused too and am confused on what to do know .(note koko house I am not desperate to be married because I was in a marriage before when I met him and I left the first marriage because I discovered the first guy only married me for his papers he had two children and his wife in Nigeria but he lied at first they were divorced but I found out when he was not paying doing his responsibility at home and I kept questioning him he opened up that yes he is still married and he actually married me for his papers and no one can tell him to leave his wife and there is nothing I can do about it that I am his second wife but I refused to be so I left the marriage)
My now hubby knows everything because we were just friends when I was going through all the pains with my ex hubby but my point now is, am so confused on what to do I ve tried to move on with my life but my hubby has refused and it’s not like we communicate like before now it feels like am forcing myself on him I would send a message but if he does not feel like it he won’t reply and here in the states guys are asking me out but my husband does not show me love he might not even call for 7days sometimes and I can’t call because he says he works 14hrs everyday and when I call he says am so tired I need to sleep in a sarcastic way, he now talks to me rudly e.g cutting the Fone on me telling me get out or he would say he is no longer interested but after 7days or more he would call again and he would never say he is sorry all he says his girls ve let him down that now he wants to take care of himself he only wants to care about himself but he has refused I go on my own .
Sister Abefe sorry for the long write up am just in pains .Pls help me post this before I make the wrong move .